I have been doing some personal style exercises and came up with this as what I am aiming for.
Simple clothing which fits well. Moderate blended colours in clothing, tastefully assembled in a thoughtful manner which is interesting but not overwhelming. A little spark in each outfit which makes it fun or different without being too out there. Individual in a calmly assertive way.
be interesting to see how that goes.
I think I'm going to add - QUIRKY - to my style words as well and perhaps also FUN?